A heavy argument could be made that the greatest indicator towards growth & advancement is how well one is towards accepting unexpected change. The ever constant of change. ..happening at times when we least expect it, happening in the most of unfavorable times, and making us wonder why, why me, why now?
We are either thrown off of track & let it really affect us or take it in stride.. & I want to speak on how we can operate with the ladder, bringing to light a pragmatic perspective to how there’s no reason to spend precious time feeling in limbo or regressed.
What has been able to keep me the most level headed is.. taking emotion out of unexpected change. To explain very logically: Everyone be it a government, company, a club/organization, or individual has their justification for making their selective choices. Some choices or decisions are far more difficult than they would want to deal with, but for them to progress forwards it has to be done, they need to make them. You on the other hand, may be on the receiving end of a tough call – Such as a larger tax given out to your income bracket, a termination of a 15 – year stay at a company based off of an economic recession, or a breakup of a relationship you thought was going to be the one. All tough breaks, all that very well shouldn’t be taken personally, but are a reality based off of how that entity or person figured they would better progress forwards in their lives. Those tough breaks could be versed in your favor, by simple perspectives as well… okay, I got to work harder now, theres my motivation, alright, that company yeah I don’t know I had been wanting to leave for years to move forwards with my band full time, that girl, I’m glad she told me now, and not later.. Maybe not like I needed to elaborate on, but.. DEFINITELY not taking any of them personally, but instead, spending time enjoying what we have in our lives, what is already there, or making progress in OUR field of control. So let’s progress and not regress, and adapt with the circumstances and not fret and lose sleep over them- for time is limited and on the other side lies limitless amounts of green pasture towards life pleasures, be them large or small. Remembering, you are the one who conveys a healthier, and happier reality with how well you adapt.
SK Creates 